What’s Meant for You Will Find You

There’s a quiet comfort in believing that whatever is meant for you will never leave you. The thought that somewhere, beyond all the noise and mess, the universe is slowly arranging things. Like it’s about joining the dots, making sure you meet the right people at the right time, and reach the right places.

For me, this belief is not just to feel better. It feels true Like a small voice in my heart that has always been there—especially when life felt confusing or painful. 

I honestly believe that this world is not just about luck or chance. There is something bigger, something we don’t always see, that is guiding us.

I’ve always been a hopeless romantic. I see meaning in small things. 

Even when I was young, I could feel it, but now it just doesn't feel the same. I felt that there’s always a reason behind why things happen, even if we don’t understand it at that time. It’s not only about love—it’s about life itself.

There was a time when something very personal happened, and it really tested my belief in destiny. I remember praying deeply for one specific thing to happen. I couldn’t do anything about it—it was not in my hands. And I felt that if it happens, it would only be because it was truly meant to be.

“And, when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.”
— The Alchemist, Paulo Coelho

When things don’t go how we planned, it’s normal to feel hurt and ask “why me?” But as time passes, I’ve learnt to believe that there is a bigger picture—one that we understand only later.

Dadu always says, -If something didn’t happen the way you wanted, it means something better is coming.

And when I look back now, I can finally see how things worked out, even when I couldn’t see it back then.

I’ve always been a planner. I like to be ready for what’s coming. Maybe it’s because of my moon instinct, but I feel relaxed when I have a plan. Still, life doesn’t always go according to our plans. Then I’ve had to learn to let go. 

Earlier, I used to hold on tightly—to people, to hopes—thinking things would happen if I just tried hard enough. But now, I realise that what is truly meant for you will come naturally. You don’t have to force it. And when you stop holding on to the wrong things, you make space for the right things.

Letting go is not easy. In fact, it’s scary. But at the same time, it’s also peaceful. When you start believing that whatever is right for you will come, the fear slowly goes away.

And then, when you look back after some time, everything starts to make sense.

Yes, we make our own paths through our choices. But I also believe that something above us is guiding us—especially when we feel lost. 

Life is a mix of control and trust. Of making plans and also letting them go when needed. Trying to control everything only makes us tired and stressed.

Patience and acceptance are not just good qualities—they are necessary. You need patience to stay calm in the present. You need acceptance to wait for the future.

I’m still learning this. It’s like a dance—you need balance, some grace, and a little bit of faith.

Uncertainty is a part of life. We are not supposed to know everything. And maybe, that’s what makes life beautiful. There are powers working behind the scenes—just because we don’t see them doesn’t mean they’re not there.

“When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.”
— Man’s Search for Meaning, Viktor E. Frankl

In the end, I still believe—everything happens for a reason.

And what is truly yours will always come to you.

It may take time. You may need to wait. You may need to trust.

But if it’s meant for you, it will find its way—sometimes in ways you never imagined.

And this one belief is what keeps me going.